Tim Walker at Business Insight Zone asks What's the Straight Line:
What’s the straight line from here to there?
If you aren’t following it, what’s preventing you?
His blog post lists all the things we see, I've done, to avoid moving forward. The list and reasons are silly, really. I guarantee they're still being done, sometimes by me. I'm getting better at seeing the pattern develop. I can head it off more often now at the pass, so to speak.
Sometimes, it's from mental fatigue. UNC's b'ball coach Ol' Roy Williams had a great qoute about fatigue: Fatigue makes cowards of us all. ( Being a lifelong Duke fan doesn't keep me from tipping my hat to him on that one.)
Sometimes, it's not seeing that first step and where it will land.
Sometimes, it's fear of getting out of my comfort zone.
I do know that mapping the unknown into doable steps replaces the uncertainty of where I'm going with the certainty of the first steps I can take right now.
And then I'll see where I'm at.
Here are the resources I use to get back and walk the line:
* Notepad with me at all times. I carry a notepad with me, even in the house, as I never know when/where I'll have a solution come to mind. I recommend the moleskine for it's simple functional design and its different sizes. It may sound pretentious. It's not. I've tried other notepads. And they don't last or work as well. Use what works for you.
* JOTT. Jott replaces the notepad when I'm in the car. I have it's number speed-dialed into my cell phone and (using hands-free calling) I call JOTT, dictate my to-do's and they're waiting for me at my computer. Then I can start immediately on the list.
* Basecamp. I've used the wiki Basecamp for 2 years now. I get more value out of it every month. It's simple, easy, cheap. Powerful. I use the to-do lists and milestones now to prepare my week on Sunday. It includes email reminders and the dashboard features shows what's due and...what's overdue. And there I can turn to it anytime I lose focus or find myself distracted. I find the to-do list for the day's milestone. And start working it.
* Balance in Life. Walking away from a persistent problem generates the best results. The operative term is persistent. That requires me to persist in finding a solution. When no more paths to a solution can be walked, I walk away. Go to bed early, go for a walk, go for a run, eat..., hang with my family (though sometimes it drives my wife crazy when she sees me looking at her but my attention is verrrry distant...). Inevitably, a solution will come when I relax and walk away from the problem at this point.
Neither individually, nor collectively, do these resources assure I reach my goals. They do raise the likelihood I'll reach them faster. And at the same time, they assure I'll fail faster, too. But regardless, I have a system that keeps me on track, on target and it's one where I gather my lessons learned along the way. And that means more success, fewer and shorter-lived failures.
And I can pay full attention to my wife and family. That's what it's all about.
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